

For James, it was about the “whole package.”

He “wanted the world to see that we were together.” This pride isn’t just about superficialities, even if it might be related. One of James’ favorite past times is walking into bars together, or introducing me to his friends. Fortunately, he stayed true to himself… Falling In Love On his thirtieth birthday, James was starting to believe he would never find love that life didn’t have a long-term relationship in the cards for him. It’s an energy current between people, inexplicably fusing them together. On top of that, there’s that feeling which accompanies and supports love. James wanted to have fun, not take life for granted and knew he’d only be fulfilled with a like-minded partner. What made falling in love so difficult for James was staying realistic about the future he wanted to share.īeing in love with a woman meant finding someone as passionate and adventurous as him someone he could laugh and speak deeply with a woman who cared for others as much as he did, and could make him feel like long-term wasn’t long enough. Because James experienced good sex, he refused to settle for someone incompatible in that area.Īdditionally, James wanted to make future plans with a woman who shared the same values and desired a similar lifestyle (i.e., travelling the world).
